I just finished reading Bob Dylan's autobiographical Chronicles: Volume One. If you're a real Dylan fan then it's a must read, shedding light on his artistic process and how he sees the world. If you're not a Dylan fan, I have no way to know whether it would be appealing or not (I'd guess not, because if you don't like his songs you probably won't like his writing style).
One thing that we know about Dylan and that the book makes ever-apparent is that he is an original. Following in the footsteps of a few (namely Woody Guthrie), influenced by many (blues, folk, rock), still and foremost he is remarkable for finding and defining his own musical language. And though many tried to box him in or turn him into what they wanted him to be, he resisted and fought their attempts to file him away under a nice, simple label ("folk musician," "protest song-writer," "60s icon," etc.).
At one point in the book, Dylan mentions how one folk music critic kept telling him that everything he was doing had been done before by others and better. Dylan called the critic a "snob," and noted that the music world was filled with snobs on all sides -- the folk music snobs, the rock snobs, the club scene snobs, etc. Dylan sensed intuitively that, to be what he wanted to be, he had to avoid and ignore the snobs.
The dictionary defines snob as:
- One who tends to patronize, rebuff, or ignore people regarded
as social inferiors and imitate, admire, or seek association with
people regarded as social superiors.
- One who affects an offensive air of self-satisfied superiority in matters of taste or intellect.
it's probably true that in every walk of life there are snobs. Art snobs, music snobs, political snobs, religious snobs, regional snobs, on and on. Certainly in software and technology we are not immune, in fact we are often a flaming case in point. Linux snobs, Microsoft snobs, Apple snobs, Java snobs, Lisp snobs, C++ snobs, academic snobs, etc. etc. You can like and use and even espouse a technology without being a snob, but it's that "air of self-satisfied superiority" that often tips the scales. Then there are the "insider" snobs, those who "ignore people regarded as social inferiors and imitate, admire, or seek association with" the "hot" VCs, entrepeneurs, companies (Google Google Google).
And if you give a snob a blog (blogging snobs? snob bloggers?) watch out.
The mistake is in paying too much attention to the snobs (let's put aside being a snob, which is obviously a short-sighted mistake in itself). It's not that snobs are always wrong, but they're dangerous because when they are wrong they are still fully convinced (and in some ways convincing) that they're right. Whether it's managing your career or your product, my experience is that you need to find the honest voices inside and outside to help guide you, and you're usually better off avoiding the self-proclaimed experts. If you spend your time trying to please the snobs, you will waste the time and energy you needed to find your own successful path. This doesn't mean you should turn down a helping hand or not listen to experienced advice, but simply recognize that any "expert" worth their salt will never tell you that they know everything about how to run your product, your business, your life.
Here are a couple of signals I look for to detect snobs:
1. Disdain for questions. If someone offers an opinion, and I ask "why do you think that?" I expect they'll be happy to answer it. If they are put out by the question, don't welcome the discussion, or answer in a patronizing tone, then my snob-alert goes off. (remind you of any politicians?)
2. Anger upon challenge. If someone offers an opinion, and I challenge it (without being nasty) I expect to hear a solid defense. If the response to my challenge is filled with anger or bullying, even subtle, then again I suspect I'm dealing with a snob.
Again, snobs are not always wrong, but as trusted advisors or co-workers, they can be a real pain and more dangerous than they're worth. Thank god Dylan didn't listen to the snobs, or we wouldn't have 40 years of remarkable music from 1964/65 Bringing It All Back Home and Highway 61 Revisited to more recent works like Time Out of Mind including Tryin' to Get to Heaven ... no one else in music writes lyrics quite like this:
I'm going down the river
Down to New Orleans
They tell me everything is going to be all right
But I don't know what "all right" even means
I was riding in a buggy with Miss Mary-Jane
Miss Mary-Jane has a house in Baltimore
I've been all around the world, boys
Now I'm trying to get to heaven before they close the door